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NATURAL BORN DOMINANT

Looking for the "real deal"? An authentic and classic FemDom who isn't practicing "50 Shades" of bullshit?

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You've found her.

 

"You remind me of the Dommes from the 70s and 80s...Into this scene for more than 40 years I can say that [you are] among the very best" - gregg, Los Angeles

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Dominance comes second nature to me. I have never needed any kind of training or mentorship in this area. It is a quality which is inherent to my personality, as has been for as long as I can remember.

 

Add chameleon-like beauty, a statuesque 5'9" physique (6'3" in one of my over 100 pair of fetish heels), thoughtful intelligence, highly-developed intuition, resolute confidence, a well-balanced sensuality and sadism, a very palpable Alpha energy, and I’m a natural Dominatrix.

 

This means that experiences with me are not "FemDom" performances but reflections of a genuine understanding of how to wield my power instinctively and completely. Because of this, scripted scenes are uninteresting and a waste of my natural talents. Instead, I work my way into your psyche using my insight, intuition, and imagination, where I create a scene based on our interests and unique interplay of energies.
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For nearly 30 years I've been aware of and consciously honed my Dominance as I explored the psychology and expression of power. In 2007 I became more seriously involved in BDSM/kink as a practice and culture and in early 2015 transitioned into a full-time professional.

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Since that time, I've been told by my peers and subs that I've "raised the bar", am a "FemDom icon" and "legend". A pioneer by nature, I offer unique insights and an authentic approach to and practice of FemDom and BDSM as a whole. For genuine power exchange and a deeper level of engagement, I provide experiences in a class of my own.

Life is a "choose your own adventure".

My life choices have cultivated the wisdom to know what I want and the understanding of how to manifest it, honestly and directly, without manipulations and games.​​

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​I'm a person who respects matters of principle and ethics. Honesty, responsibility, and professionalism are important to me personally and central to my practice. I find being a person of integrity more rewarding than compromising my values for temporary rewards of money or status.

 

I'm a conscious practitioner of inclusion and have cultural competency with various sexualities, gender identities and presentations, ethnicities, colors/colorism, religions and spiritualities, socioeconomics, health conditions/chronic illness, and life experiences. I want everyone to feel invited to explore and express. (Reaching legal age and being respectful are the only requirements.)

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I have a no-nonsense approach and will be forthright with you. If I don't think I'm the right Domme for you, I will tell you so. I'm not the type to book a session with someone I don't believe I'm compatible with in order to make money.

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I'm capable of deep understanding and compassion as much as I'm capable of tearing you to shreds, but I have well-established boundaries and limits. For those who are immature, entitled, incapable of manners, or otherwise full of bullshit, I have no resources to allocate to those types of behaviors. If this describes you, come back when you're no longer those things. You're not ready for me yet.

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In addition to My knowledge and skills in BDSM, I have a B.A. in Psychology and have completed work toward an M.A. in Clinical Psychology, where I had training to be a psychotherapist.

 

I have professional and personal experience as a counselor, coach, and sexual behavior and health educator.

 

While I have assisted and supported others with a wide variety of issues, My passions are around identity, sex, intimacy, and relationships. In particular, I enjoy working with others and their feelings of embarrassment, shame, guilt, and grief around sex and sexuality, especially BDSM, fetish, and fantasy.

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I'm also deeply passionate about helping others understand, assert, and negotiate their sexual, emotional, and relationship needs. I offer professional coaching in these areas to both individuals and couples. (Please see the Coaching page for more information.)

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