L'AUTEL DE LA FEMME
Do you have an inner femme that wants to get out?
One of my favorite things is helping men, butches, and non-binary folx discover and express their femmeness, also referred to as "feminization" or "crossdressing".
I'm best suited for those who wish to be beautiful, elegant, sexy, and/or slutty rather than those who wish to perform a mockery of the femme principle.
I discuss my philosophy and approach in more depth here.
What is "femme" and how does that differ from "feminization"?
I don't care for the term "feminization". It sounds robotic and unsexy. I also don't like "crossdressing" because it enforces gender essentialism. I prefer "femme", which I find more elegant, and so use that in its place.
"Femme" is the French word for "woman" (pronounced "FAHM"). When I say "femme" or "en femme" (translation: "as a woman"), I'm referring to the more broadly understood cultural meaning of femme, and its complement butch, which originated in the queer community. These constructs were created to respect gender "variance". Unlike heteronormative culture, these terms were created to acknowledge that people can have particular bodies, "sex" identification, and also have a so-called “non-congruent” gender identities and presentation. This means you can have a penis, identify as male, and be “femme”. Likewise, you have a vagina, identify as male, and be “femme”. These terms are independent of and don’t inherently say anything about your sexuality. Anyone can be femme, butch, a combination of both, and/or something else. I use femme, as well as its English pronunciation of "FEM", instead of “feminization” to acknowledge this cultural value and separate the activity from its misogynistic associations.
What if I want to be humiliated by being "feminized"?
I'm not the right Domme for you. My approach is different. While I can humiliate you while you're femme, I won't humiliate you for being femme. While I understand this kind of humiliation is erotic for some, it does not have a place in my FemDom practice, where it is instead respected, revered, and celebrated. In my space, when you express your unique femmeness, you will be my treasured girl, slut, whore, toy, or slave, not a joke or something to ridicule. More on this here.
What about sissies?
Sissies can be tricky. The concept of "sissy" has misogynistic roots. The idea was created to shame boys and men from expressing not only "feminine" qualities but anything that demonstrates sensitivity and vulnerability. As a result, sissy play and the humiliation aspect often go hand-in-hand. This doesn't interest me as a FemDom. If you identify as a sissy, you're welcome as long as you understand my sissies are not embodiments of this sexist ideology but my sexy gurls and playthings.
To facilitate the expression of your inner femme, I have:
various colors, lengths, and styles
for partial or full face, with foundation in 40 different skin tones, concealers, powders, eyeshadow, blushers, liners, lipsticks
in light, medium, and dark skin tones, ranging from a 140cc to 1800cc
in two skin tones: vanilla and chocolate
fashion style in pink, red, and black satin
thongs, open crotch, standard in lace, satin, and silky
negligees, teddys, and bodysuits, elegant to slutty
thigh-high and full, nylon and fishnet in various colors
various pumps and thigh-high boots, sizes women's 9-15
FRENCH STYLE, BLACK & WHITE MAID UNIFORM
Include your chest and waist measurements as well as your shoe size when offering maid service to ensure I have a suitable uniform for you.
frilly "sissy" clothes (the hyperfeminine and comical style of sissy is not my aesthetic)
Mistress, do you have my size?
I have various bras, corsets, panties, and lingerie for different body sizes. I have items ranging from size medium to 6X (women's), but it's possible I may not have a particular thing in your particular size. Please provide your height, weight, chest, waist, and hip measurements, as well as shoe size, when requesting a femme session so I can confirm this with you.
Aching to be femme but not sure what kind of session you'd like?
Partial transformation with play
Full transformation with play
Lingerie/clothing/sexy toy shopping as "male"/butch and returning to my dungeon for a full transformation
Full transformation followed by lingerie/clothing/sexy toy shopping
Full transformation and lingerie/clothing/sexy toy shopping then returning to my dungeon for play
Full transformation and dinner
Full transformation, play, and dinner
"Femmes' Night Out" with full transformation, dinner and/or dancing**
Suggested session lengths vary and can be discussed during the consultation.
(** for select femmes)
If you have particular items you would like to be included in your transformation, such as a new bra and panty set you purchased or a sexy outfit you want to submit to me in, you're welcome to bring them and show them off for me.