LIMITS
Limits are boundaries. I expect mine to be respected in the same way I respect yours.
HARD
OFF THE TABLE.
DO NOT ASK.
BESTIALITY
BITING
​BODY WORSHIP (see soft limits for exception with Foot Domination)
CRUSHING ANIMALS or INSECTS (living or dead)
CUTTING
​HOMEWRECKER ANYTHING
INTERCOURSE
INTOXICATION (before or during a session)
KISSING
JOBS (hand, foot, blow, rim)
MINORS (anyone who has not reached the age of majority)
​ORAL SEX (giving or receiving)
RACE PLAY
SUBMISSION or SWITCHING (on my part)
"TOPPING FROM THE BOTTOM" / PUSHY "SUBS"
WRESTLING (not the same as body domination, which I enjoy)
SOFT
CONDITIONAL.
SPECIFIC CONDITIONS ARE DETAILED.
​BLACKMAIL (in-person fantasy roleplays only, no remote)
BRATS/SAMs (must be negotiated)
BREATH PLAY (no suffocation)
FACESITTING/SMOTHERING (this may occur with BodyDom but cannot be requested specifically)
FEMME / FEMINIZATION (not used to humiliate)
FOOT WORSHIP (foot worship may occur within a Foot Domination session but it cannot be requested specifically)
HUMILIATION (no femme/feminization used as such)
MISOGYNY (concepts misogynistic in origin are reframed)
PET PLAY (Language like "pup", "pig" are okay as terms of endearment but I don't enjoy pretending you are an animal, training you, etc)
ROLEPLAYS (Mommy/Daddy is strict/sadistic only; no girlfriend/wife/love interest/you've cheated on me stuff)
SENSUALITY (no exclusively sensual play)
SHOWERS (Gold Goddess only, at my discretion. no brown, ruby, or Roman)
SMOKING (I'm no longer a Smoker so no conventional cigarettes or long scenes with continuous smoking. I only smoke cloves or herbal cigarettes.​)
Still unclear about the difference between hard and soft limits? Read this.
N.B. Any play which may involve contact with my body is a privilege -- not a right -- and is always at my discretion. Read more here.
