LIMITS
Limits are boundaries. I expect mine to be respected in the same way I respect yours.
Recent charge to my hard limits: smoking is now a soft limit.
HARD
OFF THE TABLE.
I DO NOT ENGAGE IN THESE ACTIVITIES IN MY SCENES. DO NOT ASK.
Bestiality
Biting
​Body worship (see soft limits for exception with Foot Domination)
Crushing Animals or Insects, Living or Dead
Cutting
​Homewrecker Fantasy
Intercourse
Intoxication, Before or During a Session
Kissing
Jobs: Hand, Foot, Blow, Rim
Minors (anyone under the age of 18)
​Oral sex, Giving or Receiving
Race play
Showers: Golden , Ruby, Brown, Roman
Submission or Switching
"Topping From the Bottom" / Pushy "Subs"
Wrestling (not the same as body domination, which I enjoy)
SOFT
CONDITIONAL.
SPECIFICS CONDITIONS ARE DETAILED.
​Blackmail: only roleplayed during in-person sessions, no distance play
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Brats/SAMs: must be negotiated
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Breath Play: a near hard limit due to danger. light play only.
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Facesitting/Smothering: This may occur with BodyDom but cannot be requested specifically**
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Femme/Feminization: I don't mock being Femme
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Foot Worship: Foot worship may occur within a Foot Domination session but it cannot be requested specifically**
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Humiliation: no femme/feminization used as such
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Misogyny: concepts misogynistic in origin are framed positively
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Mommy/Daddy roleplay: strict/sadistic only
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Roleplays I will not do: Angry/Vengeful Spouse, Someone You've Cheated on
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Sensuality: I like to incorporate it into my scenes but I don't do scenes that are exclusively sensual play
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Smoking: No long scenes with continuous smoking. Only herbal cigarettes or cloves.
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** Any play which may involve contact with my body is a privilege -- not a right -- and is always at my discretion. More about this here.
Still unclear about the difference between hard and soft limits? Read this.