Recent charge to my hard limits: smoking is now a soft limit.
OFF THE TABLE.
I DO NOT ENGAGE IN THESE ACTIVITIES IN MY SCENES. DO NOT ASK.
Body worship (see soft limits for exception with Foot Domination)
Crushing, Living or Dead
Intoxication (before or during a session)
Jobs (hand, foot, blow, rim)
Minors (anyone under the age of 18)
Oral sex (giving or receiving)
Roleplay: Psychologist/Psychiatrist, Angry/Vengeful Spouse, Someone You've Cheated on
Showers (golden, ruby, brown, Roman)
Submission or Switching
"Topping From the Bottom" / Pushy "Subs"
Wrestling (not the same as body domination, which I enjoy)
SPECIFICS CONDITIONS ARE DETAILED.
Blackmail: only roleplayed during in-person sessions, no distance play
Brats/SAMs: must be negotiated
Breath Play: a near hard limit due to danger. light play only.
Facesitting/Smothering: This may occur with BodyDom but cannot be requested specifically**
Femme/Feminization: I don't mock being Femme
Foot Worship: Foot worship may occur within a Foot Domination session but it cannot be requested specifically**
Humiliation: no femme/feminization used as such
Misogyny: concepts misogynistic in origin are framed positively
Mommy roleplay: strict/sadistic only
Sensuality: I like to incorporate it into my scenes but I don't do scenes that are exclusively sensual play
Smoking: No long scenes with continuous smoking. Only herbal cigarettes.
** Any play which may involve contact with my body is a privilege -- not a right -- and is always at my discretion. More about this here.