LIMITS
Recent charge to my hard limits: smoking is now a soft limit.
HARD
OFF THE TABLE.
I DO NOT ENGAGE IN THESE ACTIVITIES IN MY SCENES. DO NOT ASK.
Bestiality
Biting
Body worship (see soft limits for exception with Foot Domination)
Crushing, Living or Dead
Cutting
Homewrecker Fantasy
Intercourse
Intoxication (before or during a session)
Kissing
Jobs (hand, foot, blow, rim)
Minors (anyone under the age of 18)
Oral sex (giving or receiving)
Race play
Roleplay: Psychologist/Psychiatrist, Angry/Vengeful Spouse, Someone You've Cheated on
Showers (golden, ruby, brown, Roman)
Submission or Switching
"Topping From the Bottom" / Pushy "Subs"
Wrestling (not the same as body domination, which I enjoy)
SOFT
CONDITIONAL.
SPECIFICS CONDITIONS ARE DETAILED.
Blackmail: only roleplayed during in-person sessions, no distance play
Brats/SAMs: must be negotiated
Breath Play: a near hard limit due to danger. light play only.
Facesitting/Smothering: This may occur with BodyDom but cannot be requested specifically**
Femme/Feminization: I don't mock being Femme
Foot Worship: Foot worship may occur within a Foot Domination session but it cannot be requested specifically**
Humiliation: no femme/feminization used as such
Misogyny: concepts misogynistic in origin are framed positively
Mommy roleplay: strict/sadistic only
Sensuality: I like to incorporate it into my scenes but I don't do scenes that are exclusively sensual play
Smoking: No long scenes with continuous smoking. Only herbal cigarettes.
** Any play which may involve contact with my body is a privilege -- not a right -- and is always at my discretion. More about this here.