Looking to expand your erotic horizons?

Add some fun and hot tools to your sexual repertoire?

Refine your communication?

Improve your problem solving?

Deepen your intimacy?

Strengthen your bond?

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As a highly-respected and top-rated professional Dominatrix and lifestyle Dominant with over 15 years of combined personal and professional experience in BDSM / kink; a BA in Psychology and work toward an MA in Clinical Psychology; and countless, varied opportunities to test and implement what I've learned, the knowledge and wisdom I've attained from this makes me a top choice for couples wanting to enhance their partnership, build something mutually satisfying, and grow together.

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What makes me distinguishable is not only my deep understanding of how to conceptualize, develop, and integrate key components that make a successful relationship, but how to effectively act as a catalyst to their realization while simultaneously upholding clear boundaries*.

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I enthusiastically welcome couples of any experience level (including those where one has more experience than the other), sex, gender, sexual orientation (including  gay men, who I find especially hot to play with), ethnicity, color, religion, inter/ability, body type, and legal age. This isn't a gimmick, it's foundational to my approach.

 

I offer support either through a BDSM, Kink, and Fantasy session in-person or through Couples Relationship Coaching by phone.

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IN-PERSON SESSIONS:

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I can help with the introduction and exploration of kink into your relationship or a BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy session that can include a variety of activities and within different dynamics. I categorize them as**:

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D/ss or M/ss: with you both as my submissives or slaves

Dd/s: where I am the lead Dominant, one is secondary Dom, and the other is submissive

DD/s: where the Dominant of your relationship and I co-Dom the submissive.

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For more info about what activities I offer (and don't), please check out my sessions, interests, and limits pages.

 

To initiate a couples BDSM session with me in-person, please follow the instructions on my Contact page.

 

COACHING BY PHONE:

 

I offer intelligent, thorough, and engaging coaching for:

 

• Incorporating BDSM / kink into your relationship

• Helping one feel more comfortable assuming a Dominant role and effectively dominating your partner

• Helping one feel more comfortable assuming a submissive role and effectively submitting to your partner

• Switching with one another 

• How to negotiate your needs and desires with one another

• Working with and around challenges (physical, emotional, spiritual)

• Creating play that makes sense and is exciting and fulfilling for your relationship desires and goals

• Developing communication skills

• Improving problem solving

• Creating and deepening intimacy

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For more information and to schedule a call with me, please follow the instructions on my Coaching page.

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* Women who feel insecure about playing or being coached by another woman, click here.

** The written form of these dynamics -- D/ss, M/ss, Dd/s, and DD/s -- are something I conceptualized. If you and your partner(s) go looking in for more info about them online or in a book, you won't find anything. If you'd like more info, book a call!