"I took your advice ... had discussions with my partner and [we] decided to book coaching with you. ... just wanted to say I am beyond happy I found you ... Nothing better than seeing the relief on my partners face after we talked."
As a Dominant with many years of insight and expertise in the psychology and practice of BDSM and relationships, I'm a top choice for couples wanting to explore their kinks together, whether through a BDSM, Kink, and Fantasy session in-person or through Personal Coaching by phone.
What makes me distinguishable is not only my deep understanding of how to conceptualize, develop, and integrate key components that make a successful relationship, but how to effectively act as a catalyst to their realization*.
I enthusiastically welcome couples of any experience level (including those where one has more experience than the other), sex, gender, sexual orientation (including gay men, who I find especially hot to play with), ethnicity, color, religion, inter/ability, body type, and legal age. This isn't a gimmick, it's foundational to my approach.
Sessions with me can include a variety of activities and can occur within different dynamics**:
D/ss or M/ss: with you both as my submissives or slaves
Dd/s: where I am the lead Dominant, one is secondary Dom, and the other is submissive
DD/s: where the Dominant of your relationship and I co-Dom the submissive.
For more info about my style and what activities I offer (and don't), please check out my sessions, interests, and .limits pages. To book a couples session with me, please follow the instructions on my contact page.
COACHING BY PHONE:
I offer intelligent, thorough, and engaging coaching to help you learn how to incorporate power exchange and kink in your relationship, such as:
Helping one feel more comfortable assuming a Dominant role and effectively dominating your partner
Helping one feel more comfortable assuming a submissive role and effectively submitting to your partner
Switching with one another
How to negotiate your needs and desires with one another
Working with and around challenges (physical, emotional, spiritual)
Creating play that makes sense and is exciting and fulfilling for your relationship desires and goals
I also offer support with intimacy, communication, and problem solving. Please see my coaching page for more information.
* Women who feel insecure about playing or being coached by another woman, click here.
** The written form of these dynamics -- D/ss, M/ss, Dd/s, and DD/s -- are something I came up with. So, if you and your partner(s) go looking in for more info about them online or in a book, you won't find anything. If you'd like more info or to talk about how to implement them, book a call!