BDSM 201: PSYCHOLOGY

This course will provide a rich and in-depth discussion of various psychological concepts fundamental to BDSM which are often confusing and misunderstood. This will provide a rock-solid foundation for genuine understanding and improved play and for beginners and experienced players alike. Some concepts include:

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• Understanding the difference between BDSM and abuse

• Dominant/Top & submissive/bottom: how they differ from one another and why they are commonly confused

• What is fetishism and how does it affect me

• "Topping from the bottom" is real but it has nothing to do with topping

• Fantasy or Reality: why you need to know where you're at

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(60 mins)

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COST: $20

A GUIDE TO SEEING A DOMINATRIX: FROM SEARCHING TO SESSIONS

So you've decided you'd like to explore yourself with a Dominatrix? In this class I'll help you figure out what kind of Dominatrix is right for you, where to look for Her, what to do once you find Her, and how to prepare for a session. Not just for newcomers, this is also helpful for experienced players who want to improve their experiences and Dominatrices looking for better ways to connect with their clients. Previously taught at DomCon Los Angeles. (60 mins)

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BDSM 101: FOUNDATIONS

This is no boring 101 class! Here you will learn the foundational elements of this thing we call "BDSM", such as:

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• What exactly do we mean when we say "BDSM"? How is it different than "kink"?

• Categories of play

• What does it mean to be "lifestyle" or "professional"? Similarities and differences

• Culture and Community: who, where, what, when, why

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(45 mins)

DATE(S): TBA

COST: $10

BDSM 301: UNDERSTANDING AND NEGOTIATING YOURSELF

Now that you've got a solid understanding of the psychology of play, how do you fit into it? In this course I will provide insight into figuring out your "Kink Personality" and how to effectively communicate that with whom you choose to play. Areas covered:

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• Figuring our your interests

• Limits: The different types and how you can understand your own

• Recognizing and developing your own playstyle

• Negotiating your needs and desires

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(60 mins)

DATE(S): TBA

COST: $20

BDSM 401: SCENES

Now, you have all this information and you're ready to play with someone, but you don't know where to start! In this course I will help you get a better grasp on this process so you can feel confident going into -- and coming out of -- play. This includes:

• What exactly is a "scene"?

• Understanding how to conduct a scene that is right for you

• Uh oh: How to recognize a problem and what to do about it

• What is aftercare and why is it important

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(60 mins)

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COST: $20

SECURITY CONSIDERATIONS

This class covers security issues for you and your clients, both online and in-person.

This class is for BDSM professionals only. Previously taught at DomCon Los Angeles.

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